Tuesday, November 6, 2007

Friends...

One of my friend's writing in blog regarding Friends!! made me to write this article.

Friends... I feel they are seven magical letter words that bond us together to a person whom we differ a lot may be in culture,language etc.. but still we like them and always feel happy for them being our friend. I too become close with anyone within short span of time. If I start liking them and attached to them it becomes very difficult for me to be without them. Also when I feel that the importance I gave to my friend they are not giving me or they ignore me I feel very bad and wanted to be away from them. I have faced many problems because of this attitude.

One of my friend whom I met just a year ago. I became very close with this person and that friend became one of my best friend very soon. But one incident happened that made me realize that my friend did not consider me as I do. I wanted to be away from this friend. Though its painful when we wanted to be away its always better to be away from such persons who don’t understand us. Even before I took this decision I spoke with that person I told what I feel for which I got a reply all are my assumptions. My friend did not even take some time to consider or to ask me why is that I am feeling like that. Even now when I think of that friend and I pen it down to write this tears fill my eyes. But I don’t regret for my decision as its good to be away rather than to be with the person and be uncomfortable with their relationship.

So becoming close with a person within short span of time or we take time doesn’t matter but that person must be one who can understand us and respect our feelings.

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