Just A Share Of Thought! - LIKE U SO MUCH!!

"LIKE U SO MUCH" We use this often to express our love to our near and dear ones. But have we ever felt that the liking and affection we have for our dear ones must not hinder their privacy. Only due to this we face many problems and at last end up in break-ups with them. We expect a lot from the people we like most and when its not fulfilled we think that he or she has no affection for me , this thinking spoils the peace of our mind .

In any relationship I feel its necessary to maintain a distance. Recently I was watching a psychiatrist’s interview on the TV. She told that today most of the problems arise in relationships only due to this lack of maturity in love we have for others. We cant expect our lovable ones to be always with us. They have their own work and we at one point of time need to understand the situation and allow them to continue their work. If a husband/wife does not reply properly in phone it doesn’t mean that he/she is not willing to talk to us. May be they are busy or held up with other thoughts about his/her work. We need to understand . Most of the time the problem begins with this thinking that he/she does not like me anymore. He/she is not like before. We need to understand that “Nothing is Permanent except change”. So we need to adapt to the situation and make them happy. That is the best way to express our affection for our loved ones. How much we understand them? That is more important in maintaining any relationship. One of my friend never talks in phone more than five minutes though not busy. At first, I felt that may be my friend is not willing to talk to me. Later I came to know that my friend does not like to talk in phone for a long time. When I understood this I respected my friends attitude though I am a person who speaks for hours in phone . So it all depends on the person. Each one are different in their own way. We need to understand that,and that is the way to success of maintaining any relationship